Sex and Intimacy




I’ve designed a couple’s somatic coaching method that’s sexy, fun and relationship-shifting. I will lead you through genuine, interactive, body-based experiences that build on each other throughout your retreat. Your time with me will teach you about yourselves as embodied, confident lovers, creating real transformation in your sex life and relationship (in and out of the bedroom). No two retreats are alike, as every couple is uniquely wired for pleasure and connection. I will create a retreat curriculum specifically designed for your relationship goals.

Through guidance, Somatic Coaching, support and feedback I will help you enhance
Communication, Desire, Touch and Pleasure.

Together you will:

  • Understand how arousal and desire work in your body
  • Discover your ‘sexual style’ and how it relates to your partner’s
  • Build trust, compassion and communication in your relationship
  • Learn to ask for what you want free of shame and judgement
  • Enhance your experience of pleasure and redefine your definition of sex
  • Learn how to share your Hottest Sexual Movie with your lover (we all have one!)


First of all, let’s talk. I’d love to help you decide if a retreat with me is right for you as a couple. If we feel right for each other, I will then email my intake form, designed to help you reflect on some of the areas we’ll be talking about during our video chat.

The video chat is where we will get to know about each other and learn about who you are as a couple. By hearing about what makes your relationship unique, I can design your optimal retreat experience.

Next, we’ll schedule your retreat time. We will spend 1-3 (or longer) days together at a beautiful locale in Mill Valley, just north of San Francisco in Marin county.

Full of the excitement from our time together, you’ll want to take your new relationship skills and erotic menu home and continue to grow and explore. I will help you do that by following up with a video chat to support you on your journey together.


I see couples at every stage of life and relationship. Literally everyone can benefit from these retreats, whether you are newly partnered and want to start off creating healthy patterns in your erotic lives together, raising a young family with all that demands, or you’ve been together for many years and want to change old patterns of relating that no longer (or never did) work for you.

I’ve seen couples in their 20s to couples in their 70s. Heterosexual and same-sex couples. Couples with small children and couples with grandchildren. Couples with cultural or religious beliefs about sex. Monogamous, non-monogamous, couples. Married couples of 40 years and couples who’ve met a few months ago. Every couple’s sexual and emotional landscape looks different yet we all share the same desire — to grow into becoming the best lovers we can be for our partners, ourselves and for a vibrant, dynamic relationship.


I can help you create real transformation in your sex life and relationship with a retreat specifically designed for your relationship goals.

My wife and I were referred to Dr. Namita Caen in 2015. We were looking someone for help to bring a greater depth of intimacy and passion back into our marriage. Like many couples, and as busy professionals, our priorities had simply not included spending time on our erotic connection, and we didn’t know where or how to begin. As a result of encouraging and down-to-earth sessions, Namita, helped us to reconnect with each other, and to find an erotic connection that we’ve never had before.

Contact me for a complimentary phone consultation or to set up your first appointment:

Dr. Namita Caen
Mill Valley, CA
Also available for Skype sessions.

Call Namita Caen | Sex and Intimacy Coaching
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