Arranged Marriages
WHY SEX THERAPY FOR ARRANGED MARRIAGES?
Arranged marriage is a cultural norm in many different places around the world and has its own set of unique challenges. Marrying a partner who was chosen for you by your family and whom you are still slowly getting to know may require a specific kind of guidance and support. I hold a therapeutic space for arranged marriages that is accepting and sensitive to these particular needs.
GETTING THE HELP YOU NEED
Clients in arranged marriages are often sexually inexperienced and have had little physical interaction with each other prior to marriage which may lead to feelings of shame or sexual inadequacy. Men may feel the pressure to know how to please their partner or to be a knowledgeable lover. Women may feel shy about their bodies and having sex for the first time. And both spouses may feel unaware of their sexual needs and desires. There may also be pressure to start a family, which could feel very stressful and impede the natural development of getting to know someone intimately and sexually.
Some of the common challenges I’ve encountered in my practice working with people in arranged marriages include lack of sexual education and fulfillment, erectile dysfunction and sexual discomfort or pain. Struggling with sexuality and intimacy concerns can lead to challenges and create stress in other areas of the marriage.
WORKING WITH ME
Sex Coaching and Sex therapy sessions with me are private, confidential, non-judgmental and educational. I understand that there may be shyness in discussing sensitive topics for the first time. I offer my services in person and online, specifically tailored to your needs.
If you’re in an arranged marriage and would like help and support focusing on this aspect of your relationship, I’m here to help.