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Female Arousal: Desire Isn’t Always Spontaneous.

Female arousal and desire: sometimes it’s spontaneous, and sometimes it’s responsive. For women who have responsive sexual desire (which is an extraordinarily large number), it can be really important that they feel sexually desired. If the woman doesn’t...

Bisexual or Pansexual: Is There a Difference?

If you’re attracted to more than one gender, you might call yourself bisexual or pansexual. What’s the difference? We’ve really put gender to the test in recent times, and as it turns out, it’s a social construct (unlike “sex”,...

Vagina or vulva? Some basic facts everyone should know.

Is it vulva or vagina? Believe it or not, they aren’t interchangeable. It’s a common mistake made by many: vagina and vulva aren’t interchangeable words though, despite the endless references. “Vagina” refers only to the vaginal canal,...

A Vintage, Traveling Vibrator Factory

Sex toys are becoming more mainstream, and Crave is taking it on the road in their vintage Airstream trailer, converted into a traveling factory and educational space. This is a good thing. As a sex and intimacy coach, I often recommend them, and studies have shown...

Cannabis and Sex: Are you a “Cannasexual”?

You may be a “Cannasexual” if you mix cannabis and sex. According to sex educator Ashley Manta, if you’re open to it (and lucky enough to live where it’s legal), you might find cannabis can bring a lot to your sex life. Check out this interview...

No wonder grandma’s so happy!

Senior sex: it just keeps getting better! Life, and sex, don’t have to end because your skin sags, your hair goes gray or your AARP card arrives. Arguably, Dr. Lori Beth Bisby shares 10 Reasons Why Sex After 50 Is Fabulous — Maybe Even The Best Sex Of Your Life...

Sex Positive Parenting

What IS sex positive parenting? Perhaps no other topic is as delicate when it comes to parenting than sex: sex-positive parenting is all about teaching appropriate boundaries and laying a comfortable foundation for discussion for the years to come. Lea Grover lays out...

Tantra or Porn – what’s your flavor?

Tantra or porn? Learning how to be intimate is a deep, rich and heart centered process of opening up vulnerability within oneself and with another. Porn on the other hand, offers a very different form of sexual gratification. What is your flavor? This article by...

Nine Kinds of Vaginas

Who knew there were so many kinds of vaginas? “The best lovemaking begins with loving yourself” says Athena Lund, a healer and life coach from Boulder, Colorado, who focuses on sacred sexuality. Here, she explains the 9 types of vaginas as presented in the...

The Invention of Monogamy

Where did monogamy come from? Monogamy has a long and very interesting history. Check out this well-researched comic series on The Nib from Isabela Rotman and Sarah Mirk about the invention of the concept and how it has been a part of many cultures around the world...

Normalizing Sexuality: Permission to Be Ourselves

Photo by Marcos Alberti from The O Project. Sex is more satisfying and fun when you can show up fully as yourself and let go of worrying about what you look like or what you think you should look like in bed. This wonderful series of real photos highlights the natural...

Single Ladies: Let’s Get Real About Sex Ed

Raise your hand if your ideas about what EXACTLY to do during sex have come from: • Porn • Women’s Magazines touting Kim Kardashian • Embarrassed gym teachers assigned to teach Sex Ed in middle school (or worse…high school) • Sexual partners also self-educated via...