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Sexological Bodywork

What is somatic sex education? How about sexological bodywork? These experiential modalities are ground-breaking in the field of sex therapy & Intimacy coaching and can provide profound sexual healing and practical applicable education. Learn more about what this...

Getting Over it: How to Recover from an Affair

It might not feel like it, but you CAN recover from an affair. For a lot of people, when they discover their significant other has been having an affair, it’s a devastation they think they’ll never recover from. Many people see it as the immediate end of...

Ethical Porn: What is it, and where can you find it?

Ethical Porn: What it isn’t. Porn: love it or hate it, it’s here to stay. A lot of the commercial porn that’s out there exploits and objectifies its performers and encourages unhealthy stereotypes. While the compulsion to watch porn can sometimes...

Let’s Play Pretend! Getting Started with Role Play

Maybe you arrived here after last week’s Rekindle the Romance event with me and Jessica Kilde of Every Night Date Night. Authors love to spice up romance novels with every genre of fantasy, including sensual dominance and role play… but even if romance...

How Sex Is Like A Jam Band

A great jam band knows how to communicate. Great sex, like great music, has soul, and soul comes from hearing and feeling each other and what you’re creating together. Just because you bring your instrument doesn’t mean you’re ready or willing to...

Good Sex That Lasts (for a Lifetime)

Good sex that lasts a lifetime? It’s possible. I had the pleasure of meeting Martha Kauppi, renowned sex therapist and founder of Madison Wisconsin’s Institute for Relational Intimacy recently when I attended the 2018 Couples Conference here in the Bay,...

Making Jealousy Work For You

Changing Your Relationship to Jealousy This fantastic podcast from Pleasure Mechanics addresses a topic we all encounter in relationships: jealousy – and how to make this natural emotion work for you by exploring its four primary sources: posessiveness, feelings...

Hugging is Good For You.

Science says our bodies react to hugs like they do to many drugs. Hugging has been scientifically proven to reduce stress and heart rate, produce oxytocin (the “love” hormone), enhance our immune systems and more. These benefits begin when we’re...

Tantra or Porn – what’s your flavor?

Tantra or porn? Learning how to be intimate is a deep, rich and heart centered process of opening up vulnerability within oneself and with another. Porn on the other hand, offers a very different form of sexual gratification. What is your flavor? This article by...