Are you wanting to expand your horizons and discover new realms of pleasure in the bedroom? What better way to start than with a new toy or sexy piece of furniture specially made with pleasure in mind? In this blog post, I’ll guide you through some of the most notable and beloved items that could elevate your intimate encounters to new heights!
How Can Sex Toys Help Me?
Adult toys offer an array of sensations that can take your pleasure to new and unprecedented levels. Whether you’re seeking to overcome challenges in reaching climax or simply want to explore new avenues of pleasure, these toys can be a game-changer. By introducing the right toy into the mix, you can alleviate pressure on your partner and embark on a pleasurable journey of sensual self-discovery, experiencing new sensations that ignite your desires.
Vibrators for Vulvas
For individuals with vulvas, clitoral stimulation often plays a vital role in achieving orgasm. Fortunately, there is an assortment of vibrators available that cater specifically to this need. We’ll delve into the world of clitoral pleasure and explore the various options to experience erotic pleasure and the potential for deeply satisfying orgasms!
- The Magic Wand (and it’s many copycat toys) delivers a vibrating massage, it’s incredibly versatile, just put it wherever feels good. And you can buy many different types of attachments that change it completely from one toy to another. Here are a couple of other great knock-offs of the magic wand.
- Suction toys like the Womanizer give clitoral stimulation that feels like oral sex. You can also find toys like the Air Vibe that offer simultaneous suction and g-spot stimulation
- Rabbits are a type of vibrator that gives internal and external stimulation, they have two projections just as a rabbit has two ears. Though they look nothing like bunnies. These vibrators are powerful
- Small vibrators for clitoral stimulation can be incredibly versatile. The We-Vibe Touch has a unique shape that makes it easy to cup your vulva and deliver a satisfying vibration wherever you want to put it.
Dildos
Dildos are a penetrative toy often shaped like a penis, but not always.They come in many different materials, like silicone, soft plastic, steel, glass, or even polished crystal. Many are also strap-on friendly, which means they can sit easily in a harness.
- Lovehoney’s Lifelike Lover is a classic and a favorite. It’s made of silicone, is a great length for beginners and has a suction cup for hands-free use.
- Combining the feeling of a real penis with the rumbly vibrations of a classic vibrator, the Blush Impressions Las Vegas gives you the best of both worlds and has topped many favorite dildo lists.
- The Njoy Pure Wand is a stainless steel dildo with a curve– perfect for reaching the g spot or for teasing the prostate. Both ends are insertable, one with a small ball and the other with a larger ball. This toy has a cult following, especially for people who are trying to learn to squirt. And one great thing about stainless steel toys is they are compatible with all lubricant options and are non-porous, so you can completely sterilize them!
Toys for Penises
Strokers and cock rings are the bread and butter of toys for penises.
- A classic stroker like the Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage or the Fleshlight Classic Pink Lady is a great assist in masturbation or partnered hand/toy play.
- Again, the Magic Wand shares its enchantment with us in a stroker attachment called the Hummingbird, creating a vibrating stroker
- A major fan favorite in blowjob simulation is the Fleshy Pro. It’s a favorite mainly because it does the job of a stroker with the addition of suction. You can literally just put it on your penis, sit back and enjoy hands-free pleasure.
Toys for Prostates
Prostates can be stimulated through anal penetration and perineal massage.
- Butt plugs are extremely versatile as they can be worn by anyone and apply consistent pressure to pleasure areas no matter your genitals. You can get them in any number of materials, just like dildos, from glass to steel or silicone. Try a training kit like the B Vibe Training Kit with graduated sizes so you can work up to different girths.
- Prostate vibrators like the Lelo Hugo massage the perineum while also penetrating the anus with delicious vibrations.
Toys for Couples
It’s important to note that all of the toys listed so far can be used with others, however there are specific toys designed with couples in mind!
- This couples vibrator called the We-Vibe Chorus wraps from the clitoris to the g-spot while still leaving room for penetration and giving vibrating stimulation to both partners.
- Vibrating cockrings are another great toy to play with, providing clitoral stimulation as well as the benefits that cockrings bring to the table. We-Vibe has a popular one called the Pivot with many different vibrating settings and intensities.
- For couples who both have vulvas, the Union Double Dildo is essentially a strap on that’s worn internally, with vibrating g-spot stimulation for the person penetrating the other.
Sex Furniture
Sometimes the bed just doesn’t quite cut it. Sensual and ergonomic? Yes please! Furniture that is designed with sex in mind can give you more satisfying sex by enhancing your positions.
- Sex swings like this one by Fetish, offer a weightless feeling and copious new positions to try.
- Sex benches/chaises like the Liberator Black Label Esse give ergonomic support as well as chic design. Plus this specific one has rings for attaching cuffs for bondage play.
- Wedges like the Liberator Wedge give support as well as position enhancement on any surface.
Lubes
The type of lubricant you use will depend on the materials your condoms and/or sex toys are made of. Certain lubes can degrade the material your toys or condoms are made of. For example, silicone lube should not be used with silicone toys, as it will break down the toy. Similarly, oil based lubricants will break down latex condoms. Be careful about which lubes you pair with your toys or condoms, double check what’s appropriate, and go from there.
- Water-based lubes like Good Clean Love and LubeLife are the friendliest type as they don’t break down latex or silicone. They are also less likely to stain any fabrics they come into contact with.
- Silicone lubes like the fan fave Überlube last longer than water based lubes and work well with latex condoms.
- Oil-based lubes like Woo More Play work great with silicone toys and last a long time. Just be sure to wash your silicone toys well after you use them together. Oil-based lubes and condoms are not compatible for safer sex.
As far as toys and furniture go, this is just the tip of the iceberg. Remember to shop for toys that will enhance your fun and pleasure with yourself and/or your partner(s).
And, if you’re looking for guidance on your journey toward sexual fulfillment and wellbeing, please feel free to reach out!