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Getting Into Spanking? Communication is KEY.

Recently, I was contacted by Men’s Health magazine for some tips on spanking. Apparently, 25% of Americans fantasize about it, but if you’re looking to bring spanking into your sex life, you will want to approach this with some knowledge first – making sure it’s consensual is important! Like everything else when it comes to sex, communication makes for fun, healthy, happy sexy times.

Are you part of that 25 percent who think spanking might be fun? If so, here are six tips for beginners, courtesy of yours truly (please note, however, that though the article states I am UK-based, I am from the UK, but based in Mill Valley, CA – just north of San Francisco in Marin).


Love spanking? Want to explore more? I’m a kink-friendly sex coach, and I can help!  In addition, be sure to check out my recommended books on kink if you’re looking to bring some beyond-vanilla play into your relationship.

Also, here are some fun facts about what happens to your brain chemistry when you get spanked during sex. WOW!