It really IS the motion of the ocean!
“The size of your penis has little to do with most women’s orgasms. In a study that asked hundreds of women what was important to them during intercourse, not one woman mentioned penis size! Instead they answered about men taking their time and being concerned with their pleasure.” – Laurie Mintz Ph.D.
It’s a topic I’ve talked about before, but as a sex coach, it’s something that I encounter more often than you might think. Many men are sensitive about their penis size, and it’s a big cause for concern.
Media, especially porn, promotes the idea that women are “size queens” and that only men with extremely large penises can have great sex or pleasure a woman, and I’m here to tell you, this simply isn’t true. Porn, as well as mainstream media, can promote unhealthy, unrealistic standards for both men and women, but the reality is the variety in human bodies is endless, and with the right knowledge, a healthy sex life can be had by many.
This article on Huffington post talks about how insecurities around penis size have affected men and offers some great ways to overcome insecurities around your body. Being present, communicating well, listening to each other’s sexual needs and preferences and focusing on your experience of pleasure are the key elements of a great lover, not the size of any of your body parts including your penis! These are all skills that can be learned, and I’m here to help.