Netflix’s Sex Education takes us on a journey through the lives of teenagers, as they grapple with the challenges of adolescence, relationships, and the intricacies of their own sexuality. The show blends fictional narratives with real-world sexual health issues, making it an intriguing subject for sexual practitioners to explore.
In the following ellaOne article, I had the chance to share my views and insights as a Clinical Sexologist about Netflix’s “Sex Education” along with other Sexual Practitioners.
What do you think of Netflix’s Sex Education?
“Confession: I almost never watch Netflix, but I binged this show. For professional reasons, of course!” says sex and intimacy counselor Marcy Brink.
The show has earned its reputation for boldly addressing taboo subjects with humor and sensitivity. It doesn’t shy away from tackling issues like sexual consent, LGBTQ+ relationships, and mental health struggles, which are often underrepresented or misrepresented in mainstream media. It encourages open conversations and promotes understanding, making it not just entertaining but also educational.
Is Sex Education inclusive?
“Sex Education is probably one of the only shows that really tries to be inclusive,” says Oli Lipski. “While inclusivity can run the risk of being tokenistic – ‘the black guy’, ‘the disabled guy’, ‘the bi girl’ etc – Sex Education approaches these identities’ marginalities with a sense of empowerment instead of victimhood. The characters break the boundaries of existing and repressive stereotypes and are given a platform to share their unique stories while holding onto their multifaceted identities.”
The show strives to be inclusive, featuring characters from diverse backgrounds, exploring LGBTQ+ relationships and mental health, with care and nuance.
Do you think Sex Education has started important conversations around sex and relationships?
“Sex Education is one of the few shows where the writers have deliberately scripted scenes involving verbal and non-verbal consent, communication between sexual partners (likes and dislikes), contraception, and female self-pleasure,” says PJ Livett, Relationships and Sex Educator and founder of rePHRASE.
The show addresses serious topics with a balance of humor and sensitivity, providing positive messages about respect, consent, communication, and sexual identity in relationships.
Do you think Sex Education sends healthy messages about sex and relationships?
Somatic sex educator Amy McFarling says, “I think ‘Sex Education’ does a fantastic job of showing the ups and downs, ins and outs, excitement and frustration of being a sexually awakened human”
The series has successfully sparked important conversations and raised awareness about sex and relationships, fostering much-needed dialogue on sensitive issues. It encourages viewers to reflect on their own experiences and engage in discussions with peers, parents, or educators.
Do you think Jean Milburn is a good sex educator?
“I think Jean Milburn’s character is great because she models how to talk frankly about sexuality,” says Marcy Brink.
Jean Milburn is depicted as knowledgeable and open-minded, approaching sensitive topics with empathy and understanding. Her presence in the show serves as a positive influence, providing guidance and support to the young characters navigating their sexual experiences.
What is one thing you would change about Sex Education?
“Gillian Anderson’s character, Jean Milburn is definitely sensationalised,” says Kate Klein, “and contributes to the assumption that sex therapists have high desire and are constantly talking about and having sex, which is not an accurate portrayal of the professional at large.”
While “Sex Education” is not without its flaws, such as some overly predictable plot points and clichéd characters overall, it is a show that is entertaining and educational. One addition could be a more comprehensive approach, including more discussions on sexual health, contraception, and body positivity.
Are there any topics you would like Sex Education to cover that it hasn’t yet?
“While Sex Education does an impressive job in addressing a wide range of topics related to sex and relationships, there are still areas that could benefit from further exploration,” says Certified Clinical Sexologist Dr. Namita Caen. “For instance, discussions on sexual pleasure could delve deeper into the exploration of individual desires, communication, and understanding consent within the context of pleasure. Additionally, exploring the complexities of online relationships and their impact on sexuality and intimacy in the digital age would be relevant and insightful.
“Lastly, exploring the intersection of sex and mental health would provide valuable insight into the influence of mental well-being on one’s sexual experiences and vice versa, shedding light on important connections between these two aspects of human life. By expanding its coverage to include these topics, Sex Education would continue to push boundaries and contribute to a more comprehensive understanding of sex and relationships in today’s world.”
The fourth and final season of Sex Education is now available to stream on Netflix.
If you’re looking for further support or guidance, feel free to reach out. Let pleasure be your guide, and may your love and connection soar to new heights!