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Breaking Taboos: The Psychology Behind BDSM

BDSM, (an acronym for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism,) has long been a subject of fascination, intrigue and controversy yet is often shrouded in taboo and misconception. Beneath the surface lies a complex interplay of desires,...

Sexy Bed-Rooms

Sexy Bed-Rooms – a review of the Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room   We’re in the midst of the holiday season and for many of us  finding fun stress-free shows to watch is a great way to decompress after a busy, demanding day. How to Build a Sex Room is...

Sexual Fantasies

Halloween is around the corner so why not bring your imagination, erotic fantasies, and favorite costumes into your bedroom for the holidays? It’s the perfect opportunity for stepping out of routine–wearing a sexy costume, playing a role, acting out fun scenarios, and...

The Basics of Power Play

What is power play? Power play actually exists in every relationship, whether we’re conscious of it or not. Power play here, however, refers to the popular BDSM practice of dominance and submission. Consent is the key aspect of conscious power play and requires...

Let’s Play Pretend! Getting Started with Role Play

Maybe you arrived here after last week’s Rekindle the Romance event with me and Jessica Kilde of Every Night Date Night. Authors love to spice up romance novels with every genre of fantasy, including sensual dominance and role play… but even if romance...

Kink 101: BDSM Is ALL ABOUT CONSENT.

Kink 101: An Introduction to BDSM Many people think of kink as “whips and chains” but in reality, it can be a very loving exchange between two consenting adults who wish to explore their sexual fantasies in a safe, sane and consensual space, with a...

The #metoo Movement: Freedom, Empowerment and Healthy Sex

The #metoo movement is changing the way we talk and think about sex. These days, we’re hearing about #metoo daily – from Gillette commercials that send the internet spinning to record labels silencing artists with a history of sexual abuse, #metoo has led...