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Sex and the Holidays

Do the holidays boost your libido?… or shrink it? While the holiday season can be filled with fun activities, parties, and community, it can sometimes come with its fair share of challenges as well. Creating time to be intimate with your partner can feel tricky;...

Sexy Bed-Rooms

Sexy Bed-Rooms – a review of the Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room   We’re in the midst of the holiday season and for many of us  finding fun stress-free shows to watch is a great way to decompress after a busy, demanding day. How to Build a Sex Room is...

Sexual Fantasies

Halloween is around the corner so why not bring your imagination, erotic fantasies, and favorite costumes into your bedroom for the holidays? It’s the perfect opportunity for stepping out of routine–wearing a sexy costume, playing a role, acting out fun scenarios, and...

Hand Sex

Does  toe-curling pleasure come to mind when you see the words “hand sex”? You might picture yourself as a teenager fumbling awkwardly and not “going all the way” yet. Or maybe you imagine yourself getting intimate with a new lover. Because of  media portrayals of...

The Life-Extending Power of Sex

Can a healthy sex life contribute to longevity? What roles do sex and pleasure play in our lives?  The following Giddy article (by Sarah Kilgallon) dives into some fascinating studies that explore the long term  benefits of a healthy sex life on your happiness and...

Sexual (In)Compatibility

How do we begin to improve our sexual connection when we feel a lack of sexual compatibility? What makes people seemingly incompatible? And is there always a route back to sexual connection?   Why are we attracted to certain people? Why do we look forward to...

Sexual Outercourse

You’ve heard of foreplay, but have you heard the term “outercourse”?  What comes to mind when you imagine it? And what’s the difference?  Expanding our definition of sex and what we focus on when we’re engaging in sexual play can elicit more enticement, create more...

Oral Sex

Is Oral Sex part of your sexual menu? How can you have more satisfying oral sex? Are you more of a giver, a receiver, or both? It might seem overly simple, but the key to manifesting toe-curling oral sex is making sure you are really enjoying what you’re doing, no...

Rebuilding Sexual Trust

Trust is the foundation for a strong relationship and great sex! Breaches in trust are often at the center of relational challenges, ongoing misunderstanding and breakdowns in communication. If your relationship has gone through a rough patch and your foundation feels...

Sexual Senses

Are you craving a little more sensuality in your sex life? Our five senses (sight, touch, taste, sound, and smell) shape the nature of all our experiences. They play a major role in our day-to-day lives, yet we often forget to notice how profoundly they enhance the...

Happy New Year 2022!

Happy New Year! As 2021 winds down, I hope we can all enjoy a break from work, some time to rest and connect with friends & loved ones. Here are some favorite recommendations for shows & movies to watch or read while you relax this season. Bonus, they might...

Sex and Disability, Part One

We all desire pleasure and depending on your physical ability, you might consider pleasure as more or less accessible to you. When sexual pleasure feels out of reach because of a physical hindrance, it can be deflating to your confidence. When you need to ask for...