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Ethical Porn: What is it, and where can you find it?

Ethical Porn: What it isn’t. Porn: love it or hate it, it’s here to stay. A lot of the commercial porn that’s out there exploits and objectifies its performers and encourages unhealthy stereotypes. While the compulsion to watch porn can sometimes...

Edging for Men: Increase Your Vitality and Staying Power

Edging for men: how can this practice help you? Learning to edge can provide longer, more intense orgasms, but perhaps the most important benefit for both men and women is that it allows you to really get in touch with your own arousal cycles and develop sexual...

Edging for Women: Make Good Sex Even Better!

Edging for women – what is it, and what can it do for you? It may sound a bit like (delicious) torture, but edging, the practice of bringing yourself just to the brink of orgasm and then stopping yourself (yes, you read that correctly) can make for longer, more...

Teaching Kids About Sex

Teaching kids about sex doesn’t have to be daunting. The internet is changing everything when it comes to teaching kids about sex. While children getting access to internet porn is a concern, there are several people and organizations that are building...

Sex Secrets for Dads & New Parents

According to this article, when BabyCenter recently surveyed more than 1,000 dads about what they want for Father’s Day, 57% picked getting intimate and making love. This is not surprising given that the bonding hormone oxytocin is at its highest in men after sexual...

Post-Partum Sex: Getting Your Groove Back

How does mama get her groove back? Recently I teamed up with Alicia Willoughby, a women’s health physical therapist, at the Luna Method for a workshop called “How Mama Gets Her Groove Back:: Sex, Intimacy, & Relationships After Kids”. The...

Give yourself the Gift of Self-Pleasure this Holiday Season

For so many of us, the holiday season can potentially be a very stressful and busy time. Holiday parties, looking for the perfect gift for everyone on your list, long distance travel, family, the list goes on and on… However, winter, with its long, dark cozy nights,...

How to Increase Your Staying Power

Recently I asked David Finer, a guest blogger with a focus on men’s sexual health, to write a two-part series offering tips to help couples working with challenges such as premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Here’s part 2! Five Effective...

Mutual Masturbation: Getting Yourself Off Together

Mutual Masturbation? Yep – especially during National Masturbation Month! National Masturbation Month was begun in San Francisco, America’s most sex-positive city, back in 1999. Put into effect by Good Vibrations, it was originally a response to the forced...

A Vintage, Traveling Vibrator Factory

Sex toys are becoming more mainstream, and Crave is taking it on the road in their vintage Airstream trailer, converted into a traveling factory and educational space. This is a good thing. As a sex and intimacy coach, I often recommend them, and studies have shown...

Masturbation: It’s Even Better Than You Think

Turns out, your teenage self was on to something. While it’s not entirely clear why, Australian researchers speculate a lowered risk of prostate cancer in men who masturbate more, and there are other benefits as well: a better sex life, a stronger immune system,...