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Size Matters: Great Sex with a Small Penis
Penis anxiety is a real thing, spurred by stereotypes, porn stars, and cultural references, and it’s no good for anyone. Here’s some practical advice on having great sex with a small penis. If anxiety around penis size is a challenge you face, give these tips a try, and, while I know it takes a lot of courage to consult a professional on such a sensitive, intimate topic, that’s what we’re here for – caring, non-judgmental, and absolutely practical advice, so you can get on with the business of great sex. …
How Infidelity Can Be Transformative
Esther Perel’s perspectives can be challenging and thought-provoking, for sure, but they’ve helped countless couples work through some of the more traumatic episodes of marital distress by looking at things like infidelity with a new and more holistic approach. This article on infidelity published in the New Yorker explains that approach so clearly, even pointing to the potential of beneficial growth opportunities and renewed relationship invigoration. …
A Vintage, Traveling Vibrator Factory
Sex toys are becoming a lot more sophisticated and mainstream, and Crave sex toys are top of the line. This is a good thing. As a sex and intimacy coach, I often recommend them, and studies have shown that they can have a beneficial impact on relationships. And of course, they can be just the thing when you’re on your own. Self-love is where it all starts! …
The Honeymoon Phase: The Good, the Bad, and the Rest of It
Recently, Bad Girls Bible consulted me on my thoughts about the honeymoon phase, and I had this, and other things to say – check out the article for my thoughts on this period of togetherness and near-constant sex, how it affects you, and what comes next! …
Cannabis and Sex: Are you a “Cannasexual”?
You may be a “Cannasexual” if you use cannabis to enhance sexual pleasure and intimacy. According to sex educator Ashley Manta, if you’re open to it (and lucky enough to live where it’s legal), you might find cannabis can bring a lot to your sex life. Check out this interview with Ashley on Huffington Post, who created and trademarked the term “Cannasexual”. She discusses how it can lower anxiety and inhibitions, reduce pain, and what happens when you apply THC topically to “those parts”. …
Married Sex Doesn’t Have to Be Boring Sex!
Debunk some of the common myths about married sex, such as the fact that it’s gonna get boring. It could be some of the best sex ever, according to this video on Yourtango.com, and approaching it from new angles can change everything. …
Setting Healthy, Loving Boundaries in Relationships
Boundaries in relationships? Absolutely. It takes immense courage to set and accept boundaries with your partner in a relationship, but it can open the door to all sorts of new areas of exploration and understanding. …
Orgasmic Kissing
Both science and intimacy coaches support what the Kama Sutra has been saying for centuries: one set of lips mirror the other, and “orgasmic kissing” is real. Alex Myles offers up some modernized techniques for orgasmic kissing in this article on Elephant Journal. …
No wonder grandma’s so happy!
Life, and sex, don’t have to end because your skin sags, your hair goes gray or your AARP card arrives. Arguably, Dr. Lori Beth Bisby shares 10 Reasons Why Sex After 50 Is Fabulous — Maybe Even The Best Sex Of Your Life on yourtango.com – reaching “a certain age” has its perks when it comes to sex, and you can be looking forward to some of the best you’ve ever had. …
Clitoral Stimulation: It’s Big.
What turns her on, and what really brings her to orgasm? Highlights from a study of a representative group of American women provided the data for this infographic, which focuses on vaginal intercourse and orgasm. The results may or may not be surprising depending on your knowledge of female anatomy, but one thing these results show is that clitoral stimulation is at the top of the list. …