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Edging for Men: Increase Your Vitality and Staying Power

Edging for men: how can this practice help you? Learning to edge can provide longer, more intense orgasms, but perhaps the most important benefit for both men and women is that it allows you to really get in touch with your own arousal cycles and develop sexual...

Edging for Women: Make Good Sex Even Better!

Edging for women – what is it, and what can it do for you? It may sound a bit like (delicious) torture, but edging, the practice of bringing yourself just to the brink of orgasm and then stopping yourself (yes, you read that correctly) can make for longer, more...

It’s time for SF Pride – let’s celebrate!

SF Pride: it’s a BIG DEAL. San Francisco’s Pride Parade, one of the oldest and largest in the world, is this weekend, and as always it’s going to be an incredible time! What’s Pride all about? According to the SF Pride website, “SF Pride...

Teaching Kids About Sex

Teaching kids about sex doesn’t have to be daunting. The internet is changing everything when it comes to teaching kids about sex. While children getting access to internet porn is a concern, there are several people and organizations that are building...

Sex Secrets for Dads & New Parents

According to this article, when BabyCenter recently surveyed more than 1,000 dads about what they want for Father’s Day, 57% picked getting intimate and making love. This is not surprising given that the bonding hormone oxytocin is at its highest in men after sexual...

Let’s Play Pretend! Getting Started with Role Play

Maybe you arrived here after last week’s Rekindle the Romance event with me and Jessica Kilde of Every Night Date Night. Authors love to spice up romance novels with every genre of fantasy, including sensual dominance and role play… but even if romance...

Expert Roundup: Best Advice for a Healthy Sex Life

Want a more healthy sex life? Read on. I recently participated in another expert roundup, this time on the topic of “Best Advice for Healthy Sex Life.” With a focus on sexless marriage, sex coaches, psychologists, and other relationship professionals weigh...

Ask Dr. Ruth! She’s still available.

Ask Dr. Ruth, the new Hulu documentary, is a MUST-SEE. Dr. Ruth Westheimer, the great pioneer of sex research and therapy, brought the topic of sex to the mainstream media and at age 90, the world’s most famous sex therapist is still going strong, “still...

How Sex Is Like A Jam Band

A great jam band knows how to communicate. Great sex, like great music, has soul, and soul comes from hearing and feeling each other and what you’re creating together. Just because you bring your instrument doesn’t mean you’re ready or willing to...

Post-Partum Sex: Getting Your Groove Back

How does mama get her groove back? Recently I teamed up with Alicia Willoughby, a women’s health physical therapist, at the Luna Method for a workshop called “How Mama Gets Her Groove Back:: Sex, Intimacy, & Relationships After Kids”. The...

Real Intimacy: Falling in Love and Staying There

What is real intimacy? Relationships are no easy thing – communication can sometimes take everything we have, and if we don’t have solid skills, we often feel frustrated. There are those intoxicatingly blissful moments and endless days of sex at the...

Religion and Sex: Sanctioned and Encouraged!

Religion and sex? Aren’t those like oil and water? Not necessarily… Sex is a vital and important part of Christian and Jewish marriages – so much so it’s considered holy. And while there’s a common perception that religious people consider sex...