Blog
Mutual Masturbation: Getting Yourself Off Together
Generally considered a solitary activity, indulging in some simultaneous self-love with a lover can be an incredibly intimate, sexy thing to do – and, you’ll probably learn some new things about your partner, and yourself! Read on for more on why mutual masturbation can be an amazingly hot thing to do together. …
Doing It OFF The Bed: Think Outside the Box!
Last week we talked about the best mattresses for sex, but what about having sex off the bed? Over 1000 people were surveyed about other places they have sex at home, with some very surprising statistics, such as having twice as much sex as those who limit it to the bedroom! …
Doing It On The Bed: The Best Mattress for Sex!
Are you in the market for a new bed? If you’re in or working toward creating partnership, you might want to read on before making a new bed purchase – the bed’s a fairly common sexual focal point for many couples, so here’s a whole list of things to take into consideration when choosing yours! …
Pain Free Sex with Cannabis Lube: Getting Your Vagina High
Whether for pleasure or pain management, combining cannabis and sex (and talking about it) is gaining momentum as legal access makes it more available to those who want to experiment with it. Users claim topically-applied cannabis relieves pain, assists in lubrication, helps them relax and helps many women achieve orgasms more easily (and, if countless testimonials are to be believed, much more intensely, with or without a partner). …
Size Matters: Great Sex with a Small Penis
Penis anxiety is a real thing, spurred by stereotypes, porn stars, and cultural references, and it’s no good for anyone. Here’s some practical advice on having great sex with a small penis. If anxiety around penis size is a challenge you face, give these tips a try, and, while I know it takes a lot of courage to consult a professional on such a sensitive, intimate topic, that’s what we’re here for – caring, non-judgmental, and absolutely practical advice, so you can get on with the business of great sex. …
How Infidelity Can Be Transformative
Esther Perel’s perspectives can be challenging and thought-provoking, for sure, but they’ve helped countless couples work through some of the more traumatic episodes of marital distress by looking at things like infidelity with a new and more holistic approach. This article on infidelity published in the New Yorker explains that approach so clearly, even pointing to the potential of beneficial growth opportunities and renewed relationship invigoration. …
A Vintage, Traveling Vibrator Factory
Sex toys are becoming a lot more sophisticated and mainstream, and Crave sex toys are top of the line. This is a good thing. As a sex and intimacy coach, I often recommend them, and studies have shown that they can have a beneficial impact on relationships. And of course, they can be just the thing when you’re on your own. Self-love is where it all starts! …
The Honeymoon Phase: The Good, the Bad, and the Rest of It
Recently, Bad Girls Bible consulted me on my thoughts about the honeymoon phase, and I had this, and other things to say – check out the article for my thoughts on this period of togetherness and near-constant sex, how it affects you, and what comes next! …
Cannabis and Sex: Are you a “Cannasexual”?
You may be a “Cannasexual” if you use cannabis to enhance sexual pleasure and intimacy. According to sex educator Ashley Manta, if you’re open to it (and lucky enough to live where it’s legal), you might find cannabis can bring a lot to your sex life. Check out this interview with Ashley on Huffington Post, who created and trademarked the term “Cannasexual”. She discusses how it can lower anxiety and inhibitions, reduce pain, and what happens when you apply THC topically to “those parts”. …
Married Sex Doesn’t Have to Be Boring Sex!
Debunk some of the common myths about married sex, such as the fact that it’s gonna get boring. It could be some of the best sex ever, according to this video on Yourtango.com, and approaching it from new angles can change everything. …