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Roleplay

Recently, I found myself at a restaurant with a delightful vantage point overlooking the bar. I glanced up and noticed a woman scooting over as a man was inquiring if the seat next to her was available. Based on how they were talking to each other, the pair were...

Arranged Marriages

It’s estimated that about half of marriages worldwide are arranged. These weddings are marital unions brought together by a third party, sometimes a matchmaker, sometimes the families. They are typically not forced marriages. While arranged marriages come with their...

5 Love Languages

Happy Valentine’s Day!   Want to add some extra intention to your celebration of love this year? How do you feel most loved and do you know how to recognize how the people in your life feel loved too? Learning about the Five Love Languages is a helpful pathway to...

The Quickie

Making time for sex and taking advantage of our windows of sexual opportunity can sometimes feel like a challenge.  Enter the quickie! Pleasure does not need to take a backseat when your life gets busy. Let’s explore the ins and outs of making the most of your...

Sexy Bed-Rooms

Sexy Bed-Rooms – a review of the Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room   We’re in the midst of the holiday season and for many of us  finding fun stress-free shows to watch is a great way to decompress after a busy, demanding day. How to Build a Sex Room is...

Sexual (In)Compatibility

How do we begin to improve our sexual connection when we feel a lack of sexual compatibility? What makes people seemingly incompatible? And is there always a route back to sexual connection?   Why are we attracted to certain people? Why do we look forward to...

Is “Personal Space” your 6th Love Language?

Dr. Gary Chapman, bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts, says the key to a lasting relationship is discovering which love language you and your partner respond to the most. These “languages” express the different ways in which we...

Couples in quarantine: Put the heat in cabin fever

As the shelter-in-place edicts have continued from days to weeks to months, we’re all being confronted with a barrage of emotions. We may be seeing new sides of our personalities as we react to the crisis around us and the new and unique challenges it brings,...

Sexual Agreements and Conversations (Part 2)

What are sexual agreements, anyway? Sexual conversation and agreements with our partners about sex, invite a healthy discussion about what we’re open to… and not open to, and the parameters of the relationship itself. These conversations go beyond...

What is Tantric Sex?

What is Tantric sex? It’s all about connection. While we usually think of, well, sex, when we hear these words, there’s a lot more to it! It’s also a practice of communication which places far more focus on deep, present, loving connection and...

New Discoveries About Male Desire

What’s the first thing you think of when you think of “male desire”? A Canadian research project is breaking up stereotypes about male desire and redefining social expectations, and the work is proving extremely valuable, especially for couples...

Sex and Pregnancy: More to Love!

Sex and pregnancy aren’t mutually exclusive, but there are some things to consider! Sex is generally safe during pregnancy, though you might need to make some adjustments. When you’re pregnant, your body goes through a whole host of physical and hormonal...