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Setting Healthy Sexual Boundaries (Part 1)

Conversations about sex: Consent and setting healthy sexual boundaries Good communication skills are the bedrock of a connected, healthy relationship. Conscious communication creates space for growth, exploration and understanding as well as the opportunity to set...

Gratitude Season

What are you grateful for? Many of us begin this holiday season with Thanksgiving. A time to celebrate, express gratitude, share delicious meals, enjoy time with those we love, take some time off and maybe eat a little more than we usually do. Sometimes, the arrival...

What is Tantric Sex?

What is Tantric sex? It’s all about connection. While we usually think of, well, sex, when we hear these words, there’s a lot more to it! It’s also a practice of communication which places far more focus on deep, present, loving connection and...

Moving Through Menopause

Moving through menopause can be profound for women. It’s a life-changing process that can present both personal and relationship challenges. There may be physical and emotional changes such as hot flashes, fatigue, mood swings, vaginal dryness and changes in...

It’s not the size of the boat…

It really IS the motion of the ocean! “The size of your penis has little to do with most women’s orgasms. In a study that asked hundreds of women what was important to them during intercourse, not one woman mentioned penis size! Instead they answered about men...

When will you have the best sex of your life?

This study might surprise you. While great sex can be had at any age, studies show that there is, indeed, an age when many people find they’re having the best sex they’ve ever had. You might think it’s when you’re younger and have tons of...

New Discoveries About Male Desire

What’s the first thing you think of when you think of “male desire”? A Canadian research project is breaking up stereotypes about male desire and redefining social expectations, and the work is proving extremely valuable, especially for couples...

Sex and Pregnancy: More to Love!

Sex and pregnancy aren’t mutually exclusive, but there are some things to consider! Sex is generally safe during pregnancy, though you might need to make some adjustments. When you’re pregnant, your body goes through a whole host of physical and hormonal...

Edging for Men: Increase Your Vitality and Staying Power

Edging for men: how can this practice help you? Learning to edge can provide longer, more intense orgasms, but perhaps the most important benefit for both men and women is that it allows you to really get in touch with your own arousal cycles and develop sexual...

Edging for Women: Make Good Sex Even Better!

Edging for women – what is it, and what can it do for you? It may sound a bit like (delicious) torture, but edging, the practice of bringing yourself just to the brink of orgasm and then stopping yourself (yes, you read that correctly) can make for longer, more...

Let’s Play Pretend! Getting Started with Role Play

Maybe you arrived here after last week’s Rekindle the Romance event with me and Jessica Kilde of Every Night Date Night. Authors love to spice up romance novels with every genre of fantasy, including sensual dominance and role play… but even if romance...

Expert Roundup: Best Advice for a Healthy Sex Life

Want a more healthy sex life? Read on. I recently participated in another expert roundup, this time on the topic of “Best Advice for Healthy Sex Life.” With a focus on sexless marriage, sex coaches, psychologists, and other relationship professionals weigh...