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How Sex Is Like A Jam Band

A great jam band knows how to communicate. Great sex, like great music, has soul, and soul comes from hearing and feeling each other and what you’re creating together. Just because you bring your instrument doesn’t mean you’re ready or willing to...

Sexually-Abled: Disability and Sex

Disability and sex aren’t mutually exclusive. Over 54 million people in the United States have some sort of disability, but this doesn’t mean sex isn’t available, possible or enjoyable. Pleasure is for everyone! Chronic illness or injury does not...

Not having sex? You’re not alone!

We’re not having sex as much, and it’s shocking. Well, here’s some disconcerting news: since February this year, The Atlantic, time.com, The Salt Lake Tribune, cnn.com, and many other news outlets have run stories about how Americans, especially...

Aphrodisiacs: Foods That Spice It Up

What are aphrodiasiacs? Are they real, anyway? Throughout history, various cultures have attributed libido-lifting effects to certain foods and beverages. Most have heard of oysters or chocolate referred to as such – but… sparrow brains? Potatoes? For a...

Kink 101: BDSM Is ALL ABOUT CONSENT.

Kink 101: An Introduction to BDSM Many people think of kink as “whips and chains” but in reality, it can be a very loving exchange between two consenting adults who wish to explore their sexual fantasies in a safe, sane and consensual space, with a...

What is Certified Sexological Bodywork?

Certified sexological bodywork helps people get in touch with their bodies. Sexological bodywork takes place within clear boundaries and helps clients connect with themselves and the different felt sensations in their bodies. This may include movement, breathwork,...

Sex Coaching and Acupuncture for Sexual Health

Sex coaching and acupuncture work well together. “Acupuncture is a time-tested and effective modality to support many sexual health challenges in healing trauma and promoting emotional well being” — Nishanga Bliss, DSc, LAc ( Professor of acupuncture...

Down There: Women Bare All

100 Vulvas: Laura Dodson’s Newest Photography Project Warning: Adult Content Laura Dodson, a photographer known for her “The Bare Reality” series, has featured breasts and penises in her previous installations. Her latest in the series, “100...

Interracial Dating and You

Let’s talk about interracial dating. I was recently asked to participate in an Expert Roundup on interracial dating. A wide variety of relationship experts, coaches and therapists responded to questions on the topic, with my particular focus being on how to...

How Using Cannabis for Menopause Can Help

Using cannabis for menopause is helping many women with the changes that come. The onset of menopause can change everything for women, including how we see our bodies and how our bodies look and feel. With all the hormone fluctuations, we may see weight gain, vaginal...

The #metoo Movement: Freedom, Empowerment and Healthy Sex

The #metoo movement is changing the way we talk and think about sex. These days, we’re hearing about #metoo daily – from Gillette commercials that send the internet spinning to record labels silencing artists with a history of sexual abuse, #metoo has led...

What Couples Therapy Sounds Like: An Interview with Esther Perel

Couples Therapy, Infidelity, and Commitment: Tough Topics Laid Bare Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity and, more recently, The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (two books I highly recommend), was recently featured in The New Yorker. In this interview...