How often do you want to have sex? Our desire for sexual frequency runs the gamut. Some folks plan a specific number of sexual experiences every week, some just want to enjoy it more spontaneously when the mood arises, some rarely want to have sex and some are not...
Ace Asexuality is an umbrella term that captures a spectrum of identities that don’t feel sexual attraction to other people. There is a tremendous amount of diversity, and many ways to experience love and intimacy under this umbrella. In Relationship “Asexual”...
If you’ve ever been disappointed by an erection not lasting as long as you would like, you’re in good company. While it’s common for many of us to jump straight to labeling it as a dysfunction, please be reassured that this is natural. Your penis is likely functioning...
Foreplay What comes to mind when you think of foreplay? Society often defines foreplay as the prelude to heteronormative penetrative sex; but in reality, foreplay IS sex. Sometimes it’s referred to as “outercourse” which feels closer to its actual purpose:...
With 2020 finally behind us, what’s next for this coming year? In 2021, put yourself, your loved ones, your health and whatever makes you happy FIRST. Prioritizing your health and your happiness includes prioritizing: your sexual health. If this is the first time...
Written in memory of the legendary Betty Dodson, the “grandmother of female masturbation.” No one taught more women how to embrace self-pleasure than Betty. She will be dearly missed. There are many misconceptions about masturbation and self-pleasure coupled with...
Unlearning shame and learning to love ourselves is how we grow. I’ve been a fan of Foria for a long time now – their products are organic and safe to use, and are produced and packaged with regenerative, biodynamic and sustainable methods. Many of my...
Is Pride 2020 even happening? Covid-19 concerns caused the cancellation of nearly 300 Pride celebrations around the world, but organizers were quick to rally. “Can’t Cancel Pride” will happen on June 25, 2020, featuring artists, advocates and allies...
Is sex a good Father’s Day gift? If it’s consensual, sure. So, you bought the lingerie, you’ve stashed some candles and massage oil (and maybe lined up a sitter for the evening if you have children). But are you in the mood? This is the important...
Coronavirus, Quarantine and Porn Although it’s become somewhat of a joke ( so what else are people supposed to do while locked up at home?), there’s no denying the reality: porn-watching has currently become even more of an American pastime, as we all seek...
How to Stimulate the G-Spot Last week we talked about the male and female g-spots and how to find them. This week, we’ll go into more depth about how (and when) to stimulate for your pleasure. The G-Spot isn’t something you focus on right away. For women...
What’s the G-Spot? Likely, the G-Spot has been known for centuries, but it’s named after gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg. Part of the clitoral network, it’s more of an area than a specific “spot” and can be found on the upper front wall of the...
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