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Penis Sensitivity: 100 Men Talk About Theirs

Penis Sensitivity: Men Being Vulnerable Warning: Adult Content The relationship between a man and his penis can sometimes reflects insecurity about penis size, erectile concerns, sexual performance skills and can affect a man’s sense of self worth and...

Help! I think I might be gay!

I think I might be gay. Now what? It takes courage to explore your sexuality, and sometimes I see clients who begin exploring theirs later in life – questioning if, perhaps, they might be gay or lesbian, or find they’re bi-curious and don’t know how to go about...

Surrogate Partner Therapy: Hands-On Sex Ed

What is Surrogate Partner Therapy? Surrogate Partner Therapy (SPT) is a form of experiential hands-on therapy facilitated by a  professionally-trained caring practitioner (a surrogate partner) who works with clients encountering challenges with sexuality and intimacy....

Are Open Relationships For You?

Surprising Facts About Polyamory While not for everyone, polyamory (loving or being romantically involved with more than one person at a time) is becoming more accepted and embraced in many places, and it’s a topic that sometimes comes up when I work with...

Getting Into Spanking: Six Tips for Beginners

Getting Into Spanking? Communication is KEY. Recently, I was contacted by Men’s Health magazine for some tips on spanking. Apparently, 25% of Americans fantasize about it, but if you’re looking to bring spanking into your sex life, you will want to...

How to Increase Your Staying Power

Recently I asked David Finer, a guest blogger with a focus on men’s sexual health, to write a two-part series offering tips to help couples working with challenges such as premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Here’s part 2! Five Effective...

Premature Ejaculation and Your Relationship

As a sex and intimacy coach, I’m well aware that sometimes things arise that cool things off in the bedroom, dampening our passion and sexual connection. Recently I asked David Finer, a guest blogger with a focus on men’s sexual health, to write a two-part...

Male and Female Sexuality are More Similar Than You’d Think.

Really? Yes, really. Male and female sexuality are very, very similar in so many ways. The common thought is that men and women have very different approaches to sexuality, but this isn’t always the case. In fact, there are lots of similarities between male and...

Bisexual or Pansexual: Is There a Difference?

If you’re attracted to more than one gender, you might call yourself bisexual or pansexual. What’s the difference? We’ve really put gender to the test in recent times, and as it turns out, it’s a social construct (unlike “sex”,...

Size Matters: Great Sex with a Small Penis

You absolutely CAN have great sex with a small penis. As a sex and intimacy coach, this one’s a topic many of us work with regularly. Penis anxiety is a real thing, spurred by stereotypes, porn stars, and cultural references, and it’s no good for anyone....

Masturbation: It’s Even Better Than You Think

Turns out, your teenage self was on to something. While it’s not entirely clear why, Australian researchers speculate a lowered risk of prostate cancer in men who masturbate more, and there are other benefits as well: a better sex life, a stronger immune system,...

Tantra or Porn – what’s your flavor?

Tantra or porn? Learning how to be intimate is a deep, rich and heart centered process of opening up vulnerability within oneself and with another. Porn on the other hand, offers a very different form of sexual gratification. What is your flavor? This article by...