“How has aging hit you” As the New Year of 2019 started, the viral #10YearsChallenge hashtag made the rounds online as people shared side-by-side photos to see how they had aged in the past decade. It got me thinking, as time goes by it’s natural for our desires to...
Let’s talk about interracial dating. I was recently asked to participate in an Expert Roundup on interracial dating. A wide variety of relationship experts, coaches and therapists responded to questions on the topic, with my particular focus being on how to...
Wondering what the difference is between sex coaching and sex therapy? It’s a question I hear a lot as a sex coach, and so here are some things to consider. What is sex coaching? The kind of sex coaching I offer is somatic and experiential (meaning it’s...
Penis Sensitivity: Men Being Vulnerable Warning: Adult Content The relationship between a man and his penis can sometimes reflects insecurity about penis size, erectile concerns, sexual performance skills and can affect a man’s sense of self worth and...
I think I might be gay. Now what? It takes courage to explore your sexuality, and sometimes I see clients who begin exploring theirs later in life – questioning if, perhaps, they might be gay or lesbian, or find they’re bi-curious and don’t know how to go about...
What is Surrogate Partner Therapy? Surrogate Partner Therapy (SPT) is a form of experiential hands-on therapy facilitated by a professionally-trained caring practitioner (a surrogate partner) who works with clients encountering challenges with sexuality and intimacy....
Surprising Facts About Polyamory While not for everyone, polyamory (loving or being romantically involved with more than one person at a time) is becoming more accepted and embraced in many places, and it’s a topic that sometimes comes up when I work with...
Getting Into Spanking? Communication is KEY. Recently, I was contacted by Men’s Health magazine for some tips on spanking. Apparently, 25% of Americans fantasize about it, but if you’re looking to bring spanking into your sex life, you will want to...
Recently I asked David Finer, a guest blogger with a focus on men’s sexual health, to write a two-part series offering tips to help couples working with challenges such as premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Here’s part 2! Five Effective...
As a sex and intimacy coach, I’m well aware that sometimes things arise that cool things off in the bedroom, dampening our passion and sexual connection. Recently I asked David Finer, a guest blogger with a focus on men’s sexual health, to write a two-part...
Really? Yes, really. Male and female sexuality are very, very similar in so many ways. The common thought is that men and women have very different approaches to sexuality, but this isn’t always the case. In fact, there are lots of similarities between male and...
If you’re attracted to more than one gender, you might call yourself bisexual or pansexual. What’s the difference? We’ve really put gender to the test in recent times, and as it turns out, it’s a social construct (unlike “sex”,...
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