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When will you have the best sex of your life?
While great sex can be had at any age, studies show that there is, indeed, an age when many people find they’re having the best sex they’ve ever had. …
New Discoveries About Male Desire
We often want to assume that men are constantly turned on and ready to go, that their sexuality is separate from their desires to be intimate and feel a sense of connection, and this couldn’t be further from the truth. Turns out there’s a lot more emotion involved than what we often attribute to men, and they want us to know. …
Sex and Pregnancy: More to Love!
Sex is generally safe during pregnancy, though you might need to make some adjustments. When you’re pregnant, your body goes through a whole host of physical and hormonal changes, and this can affect how you and your partner have sex. Never fear, most of these changes are normal aspects of pregnancy and easily worked with. …
The Gender Spectrum
You may have heard the terms transgender, transmasculine/feminine, gender fluid, gender queer, and others like them – these are words many people who don’t find into the male/female gender binary often use to describe themselves. Although Western culture is changing, we’re still getting to a place where everyone can be and express who they are. This can be a tough environment for those who find themselves here, especially for those transitioning into a different gender expression who are learning where they fit in and maybe even working with a brand new body. …
Edging for Men: Increase Your Vitality and Staying Power
Learning to edge can provide more intense orgasms, but perhaps the most important benefit for both men and women is that it allows you to really get in touch with your own arousal cycles and develop sexual self-awareness. Last week we talked about edging and its benefits for women, but learning to “edge” also has specific benefits for men, especially if you’re working with challenges like premature ejaculation. If you can learn to become more aware of your arousal cycles, you’ll eventually have much better control over them and increase your staying power. …
Edging for Women: Make Good Sex Even Better!
What is it, and what can it do for you? It might sound a little bit like (delicious) torture, but edging, the practice of bringing yourself just to the brink of orgasm and then stopping yourself (yes, you read that correctly) can make for more intense, explosive, incredible orgasms when you finally do let go. But, it does take some practice to get yourself to the edge without going over. Here are some beginning tips for getting started. …
It’s time for SF Pride – let’s celebrate!
San Francisco’s Pride Parade, one of the oldest and largest in the world, is this weekend, and as always it’s going to be an incredible time! What’s Pride all about? …
Teaching Kids About Sex
The internet is changing everything when it comes to teaching kids about sex. While children getting access to internet porn is a concern, there are several people and organizations that are building incredible tools for healthy sexual education so that kids and teens are better prepared for a safe, consensual and natural exploration of healthy, human desires. …
Sex Secrets for Dads & New Parents
According to this article, when BabyCenter recently surveyed more than 1,000 dads about what they want for Father’s Day, 57% picked getting intimate and making love. This is not surprising given that the bonding hormone oxytocin is at its highest in men after sexual connection. However, of the almost 900 moms they surveyed, only 18% of them felt...
Let’s Play Pretend! Getting Started with Role Play
Role play can be as simple as donning some dress-up and never leaving the house, or it can be elaborate and involve public enactment. There’s no limit to the fun that can be had with this, but it can require some preparation. Here are some tips on how to have a successful role play experience. …