Kissing Ever wonder why humans are drawn to smooching? If you think too hard about it, it can start to seem like a strange behavior, but putting your mouth, face, nose, forehead, and cheeks up against your intimate partner is written all over our genetic code. So much...
Mental health challenges are normal. Life presents us with all sorts of challenges and it’s likely that, at some point, our mental health may be one of them. If depression has presented itself in your life, you know its effects can be far-reaching. Globally, rates of...
How often do you want to have sex? Our desire for sexual frequency runs the gamut. Some folks plan a specific number of sexual experiences every week, some just want to enjoy it more spontaneously when the mood arises, some rarely want to have sex and some are not...
One of our most powerful communication tools is likely right inside your pocket: your phone. Of all the many uses we have for our devices, one of the “hottest” is possibly the practice of Sexting! Sexting helps “build your simmer,” by creatively expanding...
Foreplay What comes to mind when you think of foreplay? Society often defines foreplay as the prelude to heteronormative penetrative sex; but in reality, foreplay IS sex. Sometimes it’s referred to as “outercourse” which feels closer to its actual purpose:...
We live in a time where technology is advancing faster than we could have possibly imagined. These innovations reach far beyond just our phones, tablets and cars. As technology improves in our day-to-day lives, so does Sex Technology, or as it is aptly called …...
With 2020 finally behind us, what’s next for this coming year? In 2021, put yourself, your loved ones, your health and whatever makes you happy FIRST. Prioritizing your health and your happiness includes prioritizing: your sexual health. If this is the first time...
Western culture often tends to regard “arranged marriages” as an ancient and somewhat outdated practice. The truth is this type of matchmaking is still widely practiced in many cultures around the world. Even though “hooking up” and “no strings attached” casual sexual...
Image via Marvel Comics Written in celebration of Polyday, this November 23rd. With lots of love to all polyamorous couples, thouples and beyond! As we rapidly approach 2021, the world is becoming more and more tolerant of different forms of sexual expression....
Featured in October 2020 Marin Independent Journal’s Senior Style (Special Section). Read below or at Senior Style. Stereotypical misconceptions surrounding sex at age 60+ shape the cultural narrative that sex is for younger generations and that older folks...
It is completely natural and understandable to experience a reduction in sexual desire and interest during this time. Many of us entered 2020 bright eyed and bushy tailed only to be blindsided by the most pervasive pandemic in decades. There is not a single person who...
Is sex a good Father’s Day gift? If it’s consensual, sure. So, you bought the lingerie, you’ve stashed some candles and massage oil (and maybe lined up a sitter for the evening if you have children). But are you in the mood? This is the important...
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