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Roleplay

Recently, I found myself at a restaurant with a delightful vantage point overlooking the bar. I glanced up and noticed a woman scooting over as a man was inquiring if the seat next to her was available. Based on how they were talking to each other, the pair were...

Yoga Poses for a Better Sex Life

If you’re looking for a simple yet proven way to improve your sexlife, exercise is a great place to start.  I’ve written about improving sex postpartum, learning to love your body, and boosting your sex drive during the isolation we all experienced from Covid19. One...

National Lingerie Day

When it comes to feeling sexually confident, wearing something that makes  you feel sexy can be game-changer.  Whether you want to spice things up with your partner, or simply want to feel more empowered in your own skin, the right lingerie can help you tap into your...

Arranged Marriages

It’s estimated that about half of marriages worldwide are arranged. These weddings are marital unions brought together by a third party, sometimes a matchmaker, sometimes the families. They are typically not forced marriages. While arranged marriages come with their...

5 Love Languages

Happy Valentine’s Day!   Want to add some extra intention to your celebration of love this year? How do you feel most loved and do you know how to recognize how the people in your life feel loved too? Learning about the Five Love Languages is a helpful pathway to...

Sex and the Holidays

Do the holidays boost your libido?… or shrink it? While the holiday season can be filled with fun activities, parties, and community, it can sometimes come with its fair share of challenges as well. Creating time to be intimate with your partner can feel tricky;...

Sexy Bed-Rooms

Sexy Bed-Rooms – a review of the Netflix show How to Build a Sex Room   We’re in the midst of the holiday season and for many of us  finding fun stress-free shows to watch is a great way to decompress after a busy, demanding day. How to Build a Sex Room is...

Sexual Fantasies

Halloween is around the corner so why not bring your imagination, erotic fantasies, and favorite costumes into your bedroom for the holidays? It’s the perfect opportunity for stepping out of routine–wearing a sexy costume, playing a role, acting out fun scenarios, and...

Hand Sex

Does  toe-curling pleasure come to mind when you see the words “hand sex”? You might picture yourself as a teenager fumbling awkwardly and not “going all the way” yet. Or maybe you imagine yourself getting intimate with a new lover. Because of  media portrayals of...

The Life-Extending Power of Sex

Can a healthy sex life contribute to longevity? What roles do sex and pleasure play in our lives?  The following Giddy article (by Sarah Kilgallon) dives into some fascinating studies that explore the long term  benefits of a healthy sex life on your happiness and...

Cultivating a Loving Relationship With Your Body

How do you really feel about your body? Do you ever find yourself feeling disconnected from it? Do you ever find yourself wishing that you could experience more pleasure? As Martha Kauppi says in her recent article, “without a connection to your body, desire and...

Sexual (In)Compatibility

How do we begin to improve our sexual connection when we feel a lack of sexual compatibility? What makes people seemingly incompatible? And is there always a route back to sexual connection?   Why are we attracted to certain people? Why do we look forward to...