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Let’s Play Pretend! Getting Started with Role Play

Maybe you arrived here after last week’s Rekindle the Romance event with me and Jessica Kilde of Every Night Date Night. Authors love to spice up romance novels with every genre of fantasy, including sensual dominance and role play… but even if romance...

Post-Partum Sex: Getting Your Groove Back

How does mama get her groove back? Recently I teamed up with Alicia Willoughby, a women’s health physical therapist, at the Luna Method for a workshop called “How Mama Gets Her Groove Back:: Sex, Intimacy, & Relationships After Kids”. The...

Real Intimacy: Falling in Love and Staying There

What is real intimacy? Relationships are no easy thing – communication can sometimes take everything we have, and if we don’t have solid skills, we often feel frustrated. There are those intoxicatingly blissful moments and endless days of sex at the...

Religion and Sex: Sanctioned and Encouraged!

Religion and sex? Aren’t those like oil and water? Not necessarily… Sex is a vital and important part of Christian and Jewish marriages – so much so it’s considered holy. And while there’s a common perception that religious people consider sex...

Sexually-Abled: Disability and Sex

Disability and sex aren’t mutually exclusive. Over 54 million people in the United States have some sort of disability, but this doesn’t mean sex isn’t available, possible or enjoyable. Pleasure is for everyone! Chronic illness or injury does not...

Aphrodisiacs: Foods That Spice It Up

What are aphrodiasiacs? Are they real, anyway? Throughout history, various cultures have attributed libido-lifting effects to certain foods and beverages. Most have heard of oysters or chocolate referred to as such – but… sparrow brains? Potatoes? For a...

Get Vulnerable this Valentine’s Day: 36 Questions That Lead to Love

“How has aging hit you” As the New Year of 2019 started, the viral #10YearsChallenge hashtag made the rounds online as people shared side-by-side photos to see how they had aged in the past decade. It got me thinking, as time goes by it’s natural for our desires to...

Interracial Dating and You

Let’s talk about interracial dating. I was recently asked to participate in an Expert Roundup on interracial dating. A wide variety of relationship experts, coaches and therapists responded to questions on the topic, with my particular focus being on how to...

The #metoo Movement: Freedom, Empowerment and Healthy Sex

The #metoo movement is changing the way we talk and think about sex. These days, we’re hearing about #metoo daily – from Gillette commercials that send the internet spinning to record labels silencing artists with a history of sexual abuse, #metoo has led...

What Couples Therapy Sounds Like: An Interview with Esther Perel

Couples Therapy, Infidelity, and Commitment: Tough Topics Laid Bare Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity and, more recently, The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity (two books I highly recommend), was recently featured in The New Yorker. In this interview...

Sex Coaching or Sex Therapy?

Wondering what the difference is between sex coaching and sex therapy? It’s a question I hear a lot as a sex coach, and so here are some things to consider. What is sex coaching? The kind of sex coaching I offer is somatic and experiential (meaning it’s...

Give yourself the Gift of Self-Pleasure this Holiday Season

For so many of us, the holiday season can potentially be a very stressful and busy time. Holiday parties, looking for the perfect gift for everyone on your list, long distance travel, family, the list goes on and on… However, winter, with its long, dark cozy nights,...