Halloween is around the corner so why not bring your imagination, erotic fantasies, and favorite costumes into your bedroom for the holidays? It’s the perfect opportunity for stepping out of routine–wearing a sexy costume, playing a role, acting out fun scenarios, and...
Does toe-curling pleasure come to mind when you see the words “hand sex”? You might picture yourself as a teenager fumbling awkwardly and not “going all the way” yet. Or maybe you imagine yourself getting intimate with a new lover. Because of media portrayals of...
Can a healthy sex life contribute to longevity? What roles do sex and pleasure play in our lives? The following Giddy article (by Sarah Kilgallon) dives into some fascinating studies that explore the long term benefits of a healthy sex life on your happiness and...
How do you really feel about your body? Do you ever find yourself feeling disconnected from it? Do you ever find yourself wishing that you could experience more pleasure? As Martha Kauppi says in her recent article, “without a connection to your body, desire and...
How do we begin to improve our sexual connection when we feel a lack of sexual compatibility? What makes people seemingly incompatible? And is there always a route back to sexual connection? Why are we attracted to certain people? Why do we look forward to...
Ever heard of synesthesia? Experienced it? How about sexual synesthesia? We may not be aware of how we experience the world differently from others until we start to compare and contrast. Let’s explore synesthesia and see if it resonates with you? What is...
You’ve heard of foreplay, but have you heard the term “outercourse”? What comes to mind when you imagine it? And what’s the difference? Expanding our definition of sex and what we focus on when we’re engaging in sexual play can elicit more enticement, create more...
Is Oral Sex part of your sexual menu? How can you have more satisfying oral sex? Are you more of a giver, a receiver, or both? It might seem overly simple, but the key to manifesting toe-curling oral sex is making sure you are really enjoying what you’re doing, no...
Trust is the foundation for a strong relationship and great sex! Breaches in trust are often at the center of relational challenges, ongoing misunderstanding and breakdowns in communication. If your relationship has gone through a rough patch and your foundation feels...
Casual sex, friends with benefits, and one night stands–they all have a common denominator: sex without a relationship commitment. If this is something you want, you can have it! Here are some pointers to help you with your more casual sexcapades. Friends with...
With Halloween around the corner and dressing up on your mind, why not give those costumes another chance to show their glory, by giving them an encore in the bedroom! Novelty Dressing up for sexual encounters can be sexy and seductive, and novelty is a...
Kissing Ever wonder why humans are drawn to smooching? If you think too hard about it, it can start to seem like a strange behavior, but putting your mouth, face, nose, forehead, and cheeks up against your intimate partner is written all over our genetic code. So much...
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