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New Discoveries About Male Desire

What’s the first thing you think of when you think of “male desire”? A Canadian research project is breaking up stereotypes about male desire and redefining social expectations, and the work is proving extremely valuable, especially for couples...

Edging for Women: Make Good Sex Even Better!

Edging for women – what is it, and what can it do for you? It may sound a bit like (delicious) torture, but edging, the practice of bringing yourself just to the brink of orgasm and then stopping yourself (yes, you read that correctly) can make for longer, more...

Let’s Play Pretend! Getting Started with Role Play

Maybe you arrived here after last week’s Rekindle the Romance event with me and Jessica Kilde of Every Night Date Night. Authors love to spice up romance novels with every genre of fantasy, including sensual dominance and role play… but even if romance...

Expert Roundup: Best Advice for a Healthy Sex Life

Want a more healthy sex life? Read on. I recently participated in another expert roundup, this time on the topic of “Best Advice for Healthy Sex Life.” With a focus on sexless marriage, sex coaches, psychologists, and other relationship professionals weigh...

How Sex Is Like A Jam Band

A great jam band knows how to communicate. Great sex, like great music, has soul, and soul comes from hearing and feeling each other and what you’re creating together. Just because you bring your instrument doesn’t mean you’re ready or willing to...

Post-Partum Sex: Getting Your Groove Back

How does mama get her groove back? Recently I teamed up with Alicia Willoughby, a women’s health physical therapist, at the Luna Method for a workshop called “How Mama Gets Her Groove Back:: Sex, Intimacy, & Relationships After Kids”. The...

Real Intimacy: Falling in Love and Staying There

What is real intimacy? Relationships are no easy thing – communication can sometimes take everything we have, and if we don’t have solid skills, we often feel frustrated. There are those intoxicatingly blissful moments and endless days of sex at the...

What is Certified Sexological Bodywork?

Certified sexological bodywork helps people get in touch with their bodies. Sexological bodywork takes place within clear boundaries and helps clients connect with themselves and the different felt sensations in their bodies. This may include movement, breathwork,...

Sex Coaching or Sex Therapy?

Wondering what the difference is between sex coaching and sex therapy? It’s a question I hear a lot as a sex coach, and so here are some things to consider. What is sex coaching? The kind of sex coaching I offer is somatic and experiential (meaning it’s...

Penis Sensitivity: 100 Men Talk About Theirs

Penis Sensitivity: Men Being Vulnerable Warning: Adult Content The relationship between a man and his penis can sometimes reflects insecurity about penis size, erectile concerns, sexual performance skills and can affect a man’s sense of self worth and...

Help! I think I might be gay!

I think I might be gay. Now what? It takes courage to explore your sexuality, and sometimes I see clients who begin exploring theirs later in life – questioning if, perhaps, they might be gay or lesbian, or find they’re bi-curious and don’t know how to go about...

Negative Meaning-Making: Tell Yourself Something Better

What is Negative Meaning-Making? Negative meaning-making is exactly what it says it is – making negative meanings out of things that happen. This can have detrimental effects on your relationship with yourself and can also deeply impact your relationships with...