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Pain Free Sex with Cannabis Lube: Getting Your Vagina High

It’s not just for pleasure, but wow, the pleasure. Last month, I introduced readers to Ashley Manta, who coined the term “Cannasexual” for people who use cannabis to enhance their sex lives. With an aim toward removing stigmas and opening minds,...

Size Matters: Great Sex with a Small Penis

You absolutely CAN have great sex with a small penis. As a sex and intimacy coach, this one’s a topic many of us work with regularly. Penis anxiety is a real thing, spurred by stereotypes, porn stars, and cultural references, and it’s no good for anyone....

A Vintage, Traveling Vibrator Factory

Sex toys are becoming more mainstream, and Crave is taking it on the road in their vintage Airstream trailer, converted into a traveling factory and educational space. This is a good thing. As a sex and intimacy coach, I often recommend them, and studies have shown...

Cannabis and Sex: Are you a “Cannasexual”?

You may be a “Cannasexual” if you mix cannabis and sex. According to sex educator Ashley Manta, if you’re open to it (and lucky enough to live where it’s legal), you might find cannabis can bring a lot to your sex life. Check out this interview...

Married Sex Doesn’t Have to Be Boring Sex!

A lot of what we assume about married sex is wrong! Debunk some of the common myths about married sex, such as the fact that it’s gonna get boring. It could be some of the best sex ever, according to this video on Yourtango.com, and approaching it from new...

Orgasmic Kissing

Is orgasmic kissing actually possible? “So long as lips shall kiss,and eyes shall see,so long lives this ,and this gives life to thee.” – Mallanaga Vātsyāyana, The Complete Kāma-Sūtra: The First Unabridged Modern Translation of the Classic Indian Text Also...

Clitoral Stimulation: It’s Big.

What turns her on, and what really brings her to orgasm? Highlights from a study of a representative group of American women provided the data for this infographic, which focuses on vaginal intercourse and orgasm. The results may or may not be surprising depending on...

Masturbation: It’s Even Better Than You Think

Turns out, your teenage self was on to something. While it’s not entirely clear why, Australian researchers speculate a lowered risk of prostate cancer in men who masturbate more, and there are other benefits as well: a better sex life, a stronger immune system,...

New Year’s Resolutions: No Regrets

Say “I Love You” more. This article has made the rounds several times since it was first published, and it holds some deep truths and inspiration. If making resolutions for the upcoming new year are important to you, take a moment to read this article, The...

Sex for Christmas? Maybe.

It’s a gift to keep on giving. Dr. Nikki Goldstein, sexologist and author, discusses why giving sex as a gift in relationships isn’t always what it seems to be. Sex is wonderful, and sex on Christmas? Sure thing – just don’t give it as a gift....

Tantra or Porn – what’s your flavor?

Tantra or porn? Learning how to be intimate is a deep, rich and heart centered process of opening up vulnerability within oneself and with another. Porn on the other hand, offers a very different form of sexual gratification. What is your flavor? This article by...

The Post-Sex Afterglow

Research suggests that it takes 20 seconds for oxytocyn (the bonding hormone) to activate in our systems when we hug. This article from the Huffington Post says findings show that the post-sex afterglow created by the feel good hormones activated during sex and during...